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Random Acts of….Marriage

Joshua and I have been married for eight years today.  I’d like to say we’ve learned a lot about marriage, family, and each other in that time.  And we have.  But I still think we’ve got a lot to learn.  It’s easy for me to think, “Wow!  Eight years is a long time!”  It is, I guess.  Until I look at the marriages he and I both admire the most.

We are both blessed to still have one set of grandparents each.  His mother’s, my father’s.  Both sets  married their childhood sweethearts.  All of them grew up during the Great Depression and WWII.  They started their married lives during the fifties and raised children alongside Flower Power and Vietnam.  They gave their families everything and are blessed now to live in homes they own because they understood budgets and finance before Dave Ramsey.  Between them they have twelve grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren and they share the three sweetest: Madelynne, Annabelle, and Amelia.

Each set has been married for at least sixty years, but has known their partner for nearly eighty.  That is ten times how long Joshua and I have been married.  And we only knew each other for two years before.  Suddenly, eight years just seems like a drop in the bucket.  I hope and pray that we’ll reap the blessings of our grandparents.  To sit on the front porch of a home I truly own, to have grandchildren crawling across my lap to his, to know he loves me more now than he did on July 20, 2002 will be the ultimate anniversary.

Eight years is just the beginning of our marriage.  There is so much wonder yet to come.

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Random Acts of…Month 5

I can’t believe Amelia is five months old today.  Seriously, forget time flies.  I think it transports like in an episode of Star Trek.  I mean, really?  My sweet baby is five months old already?  I feel like we just left the hospital still shaking our heads over the fact that she’s a girl and not the boy everyone (but Mary Lynn) thought we were having.

At five months, Amelia is full of personality and spirit.  For the most part she’s pretty laid back, content to go with the flow and remain limp when being flopped around like a rag doll.  She’s a hearty eater and is now enjoying oatmeal with breakfast and rice cereal with dinner.  She also got a taste of formula recently when Joshua and I had a big date and I hadn’t pumped enough.  We’re working toward a schedule that will transition us into the new school year all too soon, and she has finally started sleeping throught the night.

But I still wish I could turn back time for just a few hours and go back to those first couple weeks she was home and I would sit on the couch and nurse her and hold her and marvel at how beautiful and perfect she is.  Already she’s over quiet cuddle time with Mommy and prefers to assert her new found ability to sit up when I’m holding her and she talks and squeals and grunts loud enough to be heard over her sisters.

Isn’t it amazing what five months can do?

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Random Acts of….Staycation

Last week Joshua stayed home with us all week.  Originally, we would have probably taken some sort of vacation, but in the interest of economics, we decided to have a “staycation” instead.

Well, our staycation definitely cost more than a week at the beach, or even Disney World, but in the long run will be a better investment.

Here’s what we did: camped at Lake Hartwell, visited Dahlonega’s Gold Mines, viewed some “wildlife”, and culminated the week with a big purchase for Daddy.

I think Joshua’s favorite part was definitely the big purchase.

It’s a truck.  A great big Ford F150 Super Crew Cab that will seat all three girls across the back seat.  That makes me happy.

 It has a/c and is cool.  Literally and figuratively.  That makes Joshua happy.

I should mention here that if you missed my list on how wonderful my husband is you don’t know that he primarily drives the Honda Civic my parents bought me in high school.

It’s 20 years old and has no air conditioning.  It’s tiny and old and doesn’t say “cool dad who needs to haul lumber home to build his girls a treehouse”.

So instead of ending our staycation with a trip to the water park, we cooled off in south Atlanta via Ford a/c.  Works for me!

To check out some visuals of our fun week, visit my Shutterfly site here.

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No Words

There are no words for the loss of a child.  There are no actions that can take away that pain.  I wish there was.  I wish I could hold my friend close and just for a moment absorb some of her grief so that she did not have to feel it.  But I cannot.  All I can do is love her family, pray for their coming days, offer condolences that seem so cold in comparison to the warmth of their son. 

Hold your children a little tighter tomorrow.  Thank God they are shared with you for one more day. 

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Camping in the Rain (in July)

It appears that we are the cause.  The cause of rain that is.  I thought this gift belonged to the NHMS soccer teams because everytime they have a game, it rains.  But apparently, we too are a cause.  Everytime the Bracketts plan a camping trip, it rains.

Back in May I decided that we needed to extend our stay-cation just a bit and camping was an affordable and fun (and work-filled) way to do this.  So, I relied on the trusty National Recreation Reservation Service (i.e. my mom) and booked us a site at Oconee Point on Lake Hartwell.  We invited some friends to join us and the Hollands were game.  Well, Scott and the girls were.  Noelle was pretty sure she’d prefer the Comfort Suites.

I grew up on Hartwell and Russell lakes because my parents are Corps of Engineers and used to take us boating, camping, fishing, all that good outdoorsy stuff I want my children to experience.  Plus, Joshua’s an Eagle Scout so I feel like we should spend more time in the woods using those skills.

Boy is camping different when you have to be the one in charge instead of just the one enjoying yourself.

We packed the van (and I do mean packed, we’re going to have to invest in one of the pods for the roof) and left the house in a downpour.  It’ll be gone by the time we get an hour north we told ourselves.

Whatever, it was following us.  It rained the whole way to the campground and didn’t stop until we were sitting in the car wondering how we were going to unload to get to the tent that was on the bottom and then set it up in the rain.

We finally got camp set up and were eating our dinner of sandwiches when the Hollands arrived around 10 p.m.  Scott had no trouble pitching their tent in the dark and we sat around by lantern light and blessed the rain now, since it had cooled down the temps and made sleeping bearable.

The next morning the kiddos were up bright and early (think prior to 7 a.m.).  We spent the day swimming the lake, walking the campground, fishing for brim, grilling all sorts of yummy burgers and steak and deer backstrap (thanks, Scott!), and riding on the boat with Corey and Alaina.

My brother gets the uncle gold star this week.  He and Alaina came up from Hot-lanta and brought my parents’ old pontoon that Corey has converted to his fishing boat.  They also brought Butter, their water-savvy Golden Retriever, and Jasper, my mom’s only-Golden-in-the-world-who-can’t-swim.
 
We had a good time with the puppies (Scott and Noelle had also brought their basset, Sadie).  They chased balls in the water, jumped off the boat, and searched the island beach for prey.  Jasper even swam a little in an effort to catch some geese.  Corey helped him out by putting the noodle under him.  Hilarious!

We weathered a brief shower under the picnic shelter and then headed out on the lake.

On Saturday night we sat around the campfire trading stories about family and alternately yelling at the girls to go to sleep.  Sunday morning came early again and Corey is now my favorite sibling because he had the coffee ready when we got up at dawn again.

The Hollands had to head out about mid-day, so we spent Sunday afternoon on the boat riding the new toy Corey and Alaina headed off to Anderson to get and letting Granddaddy bond with Amelia.

Sunday night was quiet once it was just us and everyone had gone.  We went to bed early and woke in the middle of the night to….the sound of rain.

Which meant that when we packed up on Monday morning everything was wet and muddy.  Typical.

But a good time, nonetheless!