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Thankful Thursday

This Thursday I am choosing to be thankful for all that I normally grumble about because after all, all life is a gift, and filled with blessings we disguise as work.

My tiny little house….



Our house has never sold and in eighteen months on the market has had five showings.  It’s not happening.  We owe too much and it’s worth too little.  So it’s coming off the market, and we’re learning to live in a cozy space most people think is crazy.  But a wise friend told me last night that she grew up in a small house with two sisters and loved it, and she said, “It made us closer.”  Having observed the sweet bond of her family, I believe her.  And it does make us closer.  We have to watch tv together, the girls are almost always less than ten feet away when I’m cooking or cleaning or talking on the phone or blogging.  Our small house has taught us about what is necessary and what is not.  And while we’ve still a long way to go in eliminating clutter, we do have less “stuff” now that just takes up space and more of the stuff that’s important to our lives for this moment.  Like Weeble treehouses and dollhouses and art easels.  Other junk went so those things could come, and I’m grateful.

The dishes….
I hate doing dishes.  I’ll cook all day long if someone else will wash and load and put away.  I don’t know why I make dishes such a big deal because whenever I actually break down and do them, it takes fifteen minutes, tops.  But I hate it.  Confession: I cooked a chicken in the crockpot on Sunday.  The crockpot was filled with soapy water that night in anticipation of a scrub.  Guess where it still sits?  That’s gross, I know.  In my defense, however, it’s the only thing in the sink longer than 24 hours.  So, I hate dishes.  But dirty dishes mean my family ate that day.  And they usually ate pretty well.  Pots mean I cooked instead of giving into the temptation of going out and a sink full of dishes also means I thought it was more important to rock Amelia and read to my big girls on these nights we’ve gotten home late from soccer and church.  And I’m thankful my husband could care less if we have dishes in the sink as long as there’s food on the table.

Our tiny house has won me over to the open kitchen/living.  I like this one for someday.

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The laundry…
Piles of laundry mean my kids have an over abundance of clothes.  Which they do.  I don’t mind laundry like I mind the dishes.  Laundry to fold means I can sit on the couch and watch a movie while Amelia naps.  Important note: laundry MUST be folded while Amelia naps.  Otherwise she “helps” by unfolding.  I’m also grateful that today is Pajama Day at the girls’ school since I’m behind on my once-a-day loads.  Sheesh, what have I been doing this week?  By the way, if this was my laundry room, I would never do laundry.  I would just keep it pristine and keep the real work hidden away.

I might get some work done here, though.

Did I mention I’m also thankful for Pinterest?

Linking up with the lovely Julia over at Black Tag Diaries.

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Porcupine Eggs

You know what a porcupine egg is, don’t you?

On a fall walk last week, the girls picked some up and their daddy told them these little prickly balls (ours were green) were porcupine eggs.

They believed him.

At first it was cute and we played along.  Well, he did.  I just giggled in the front seat while they talked all about their porcupine eggs all the way home and Joshua told them they would hatch after they turned brown and split open.

Then we got home.  And they made a house for their eggs out of a recycled Pampers box and some leaves.

And then they had to check on their “babies” every hour until they went to bed.

I warned him they would cry when he broke the news.

On Saturday, they forgot about the eggs for awhile when we went apple picking, but as soon as we got home they had to show their eggs to Mimi and Grandpa and tell them what they were going to name their porcupine babies.  Then, on Sunday, the eggs began to turn brown.

“Daddy!  They’re hatching!”

So he had to tell them.  It wasn’t too bad, he said.  Annabelle shrugged and ran off.  Madelynne had tears until Joshua explained that when the egg hatched, all the little seedlings inside would grown a great big sweetgum tree.  Then she lit up.

“Annabelle!”  she shrieked running into the backyard.  “Daddy said we’re going to grow a GUM tree!”

Joshua just said he hopes we move before he has to fess up to that one.

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Saturday Ramblings

We’ve been on fall break for the past couple of days.  Translation: Mommy has been lazy and Daddy and the girls have been working hard on their big project.

Here it is:

It’s a “wild garden.”  We’re going to turn this little plot into a maze of vegetables and flowers and butterflies (hopefully) in the spring, but apparently the work starts now.  My job was to supervise and take pictures while the girls and Joshua hauled mulch and scraped dirt.

Then I was worn out, so Amelia and I had to go inside and take naps.  It’s tough to supervise.  And did I mention, it was super cold on this day?  On Monday it was 78 degrees, on Thursday it was 48.  Then I started wondering why the house was so cold, and guess what?  The unit isn’t working.  No idea how long it’s truly been out since it’s been off for about ten days and the windows have been open.  But yesterday, the thermostat quit registering as well.  Good thing last year we invested in this lovely piece so our tootsies can stay warm.

On Thursday, we also visited my OB office for an ultrasound to determine just when this new baby is actually due.  Here’s a little TMI for some of you: when you get pregnant on your IUD, it’s hard to determine exactly when that might have occurred.  Hence, the three ultrasounds I’ve already had.  So, we thought Peanut was due more mid to late May, but it’s been decided to move the date to May 8th.  Which might break our birthday streak: 9-19, 3-19, 2-19.  But since this baby is on it’s own timing, who’s surprised?

We took the girls with us to see the baby, and all they kept asking poor Jessica was, “Boy or girl?”  No amount of “it’s too early” could convince them.  Here it is…boy or girl?

Kind of skeletal in honor of Halloween.  My dates were changed to show that baby measured 11w2d, so we’ll check back in November to answer that all important question.  Yes, this time I want to know.  Joshua doesn’t, but I told him I’d be happy to find out and he could just not speak to any of my friends or family or check facebook between now and May.  So, he gave up the argument.  I think he’s saving his breath for the name argument, um, discussion.

Now we’re having a lazy Saturday that needs to get a move on if we’re going to make it to the farm for apple picking later today.

Where are you rambling off to this Saturday?

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Multitudes of Miscellaneous Monday

This weekend I cooked this
this ginormous twenty-seven pound turkey.
I am well aware that it is not Thanksgiving.  But Joshua’s folks bought it at Publix for .69 a pound.
So I cooked it.
And we’ll eat it all week.
Which is great since the play opens Friday and cooking actual meals is not happening.
Oh, and Madelynne starts soccer so having time for actual meals this week 
isn’t happening either.
Which makes me sad.
Dinnertime is my favorite time.
Speaking of favorites, fall is my favorite season.
I cannot wait for the days to get a bit chillier 
(though they’re pretty nice right now)
and the leaves to turn completely 
(but still be on the trees)
and someone to buy me some beautiful mums
(hint, hint)
to set on my front porch.
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That hint, hint is intended for my husband when I make him read this later

so don’t rush out and buy me mums
because I know you were all going to.
I dressed Amelia in new clothes for MOPS on Friday.
She was pretty snazzy in her dark-wash jeans.

Sweet girl, most everything she gets is hand-me-down, but this I got on sale.
It says “cutest in the family”.  It was Sissy-approved.
Even her shoes are new.
But then she had a blowout.
You know what I’m talking about.
And so I had to bathe her when I got back home
and she spent the rest of the day
in her diaper.
It was easier.
Today has been a pretty good Monday.  
No yelling before school.
Even when Annabelle lied about brushing her teeth.
Workout at Jazzercise.
Lots of laundry.
Trying to settle into a routine.
Lots of blessings.
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Small Graces

7:54.

That’s what time the oven glared at me, red and accusing this morning when I ran back in the house for my coffee, my keys, the phone book.

We had one of those mornings. And I needed a number to double check directions to an appointment and I needed to call while I was driving them to school so I could make sure I was where I was supposed to be on time and time had gotten away from us and now my kids were late to school.

I know it’s not a big deal.  It’s a little thing.  A mistake.  A blip on the parenting radar that would be forgotten but the looks on their faces when I jumped in yelling, “Buckle up!  You’re late!”, were so hurt.

Late?  They’d have to sign in at the office, right?  Isn’t that what you have to do?  And I would have to wrestle Amelia back into her carseat because I couldn’t very well leave her in the minivan while I ran in to sign the paper that condemned my kids to a tardy notice on their report cards.

“Mommy, how can we be late?” Madelynne asked all quiet from the backseat.

They’ve inherited perfectionism from their mother.   But anti-lateness?  That came from their father.

We whipped in the turn lane with me silently thankful that we are in the school only two miles from the house. We cruised down the drive and….stopped.  In a line of cars too backed up for 7:59.

“Mommy! Doughnuts!”

It’s Krispy Kreme fundraiser morning and as they stumbled out the automatic doors, the sweetest elementary counselor waved me on.

“No one’s late today!  We got behind.”

Small graces.  And a $5 package of doughnuts.

Thank you, Lord.  I just needed that small reminder.