http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · monday

today’s monday again

amelia and kayden have emptied the toybox and put all the stuffed animals to sleep all over the house~there are dishes in the sink and too many loads of laundry for a monday~i still need to clean out the dress up trunk that’s been repurposed and figure out how the girls’ old dresser is going to fit in the nursery~in amelia’s room really because we don’t have a nursery~baby gus is getting a cradle in my room and a closet full of clothes~and diapers and wipes and personalized items from special friends
now there’s chalk dust all over my clean carpets~we ate at Zaxby’s last night because daddy is gone and i didn’t want to clean the kitchen again~as soon as we got home amelia dumped a glass of lemonade all over the floor~annabelle cleaned it up because she loves the swiffer with a wet cloth~amelia has started counting 1-2-3 and it’s the cutest thing~she also consented for the first time this weekend that gus was coming to live with us~hopefully he is coming soon~i’ve been crying uncontrollably for days because once i start i can’t stop~sometimes there’s a reason but usually not~i think i’m just overwhelmed with the idea that it’s almost over~too many mixed emotions for a monday~the garden has tiny green shoots of carrots and crisp lettuce leaves and maybe the frost didn’t kill all the tomatoes~we watered it from the girls’ kiddie pool today which makes me feel good about reuse of resources~over and over He reminds me that i am not in control~that messy is okay~that small is cozy~that love is unconditional~that kids aren’t perfect and neither am i~and now it’s naptime.
Linking up with Carissa too
because I love her Mondays
Miscellany Monday @ lowercase letters
amelia · birthdays · family · gardening · http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · joshua · Photos · spring

Months in Photos


I gave up on my 365 project because I can’t remember on which days I took certain pictures.And I would hate to lie to myself.Instead I discovered A Month in Photos over atsimple as that
And of course, I’m already behind.But here’s February and Marchso now I’m all caught up.

In Februarywe celebrated Amelia’s 2nd birthday with a Pooh partyand my 32nd with birthday brownieswe did some acts of love and ate fondue for Valentine’s Joshua started a new job so he got a cake, toowe made a banner out of birthday cardsand ate popsicles on the porchBelle had a tonsillectomyand two ER visitsone for stitches in her chinFor such a short month, we sure were busy!

I can’t believe March is overand spring is here and soon we’ll be a family of six.We’ve been enjoying springKayden taught Amelia to shoot some hoopsBelle turned six and had a Hello Kitty party at the park despite the rainLeah Kate turned one and we celebrated with the BarksdalesI shopped the consignment saleand thank goodness, otherwise they’d be nakedJoshua planted the garden with lots of helpwell, sort of help anywaywe’ve already had an Easter celebration at churchand are trying out crazy hats because it’s already hot!
Maybe our April collage will feature a sweet baby boy….

http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · thankful Thursday

Thankful and Counting

About this time last year, I finally cracked open 1000 Gifts and began a gratitude journal.  I haven’t been as faithful as I would aspire to be at writing down all those small moments of grace, but I know they are there.  And here lately when I wake up in the middle of the night because my legs are crampy or my side is asleep or this baby inside me is awake and letting me know it, my mind starts to wander.

Not in a good way.  Not in a let-me-reflect on my blessings kind of way.  More in a let-me-suddenly-worry-about-all-the-things-I-didn’t-already-worry-about-today kind of way.

So there are times when I rearrange the pillows or get up to take care of business or relocate to the couch so at least one person in my bed can get some sleep (I’m very considerate like that) and I have to force myself to calm down.  To be restful and thankful.  I make myself think of the good before the worry and sometimes in those quiet moments all those scriptures I used to know by heart come back to quiet my soul.


Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  Philippians 4:6

So I’m still counting the never ending bounty of good.

grocery shopping by myself

Easter egg hunts

chocolate ice cream sticky on Annabelle’s face

Amelia’s kisses

how tall Madelynne is now

serving church fellowship suppers

sandwiches for dinner


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http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · school

Top 10 Why the Book Tops the Movie

I had a mommy break yesterday.  I left Amelia with my sister, dropped the big gals at school, and boarded a caravan of buses with 175 8th graders (about half were former students of mine from last year) and headed to the biggest mall around on a field trip to see The Hunger Games.

This is the second year the novel has been taught in a unit that encompasses almost every reading and writing standard there is for eighth grade, so our students already had a unique perspective on the story.  They’ve been discussing everything from figurative language to the desensitization of our society and after it was over, most of them uttered words this English teacher loves to hear: The book was way better.

I have to agree.  And here’s 10 reasons why.

1.  Character development.  Katniss is one of the richest and most complex heroines to come along in a while, and as good as Jennifer Lawrence was, the movie didn’t let you hear the battle in her head the way the book does.

2.  Madge.  She’s barely there for the first two books of the series but she’s important as the giver of Katniss’s token and even more important when you learn the history behind that little pin.  But screen time?  Cut completely.

3.  Mother-Daughter relationship.  Seeing the movie alone might make you think Katniss is a typical teenage girl who doesn’t value her mother.  Or you could read the book and get the whole story of how Katniss feels let down by the one person who should have cared for her unconditionally.

4.  Who is Peeta really?  Again, the movie can’t show you nearly enough to help you understand who this boy is and why he loves her and how she will never feel that she can stop owing him.  In an ironic twist, he saved her life long before the arena, but you lose all that in the film.

5.  Being fatherless.  Losing her father defines Katniss…I can’t say it enough.  There’s so much back story.

6.  The Triangle.  Teenagers (girls) love the conflict between who Katniss truly loves.  Is it Peeta or is it Gale?  It’s a question that can’t be answered until the last book, but its build up is lacking in the film.  Although the girls all agree they are both “smokin’ hot.”

7.  Haymitch.  He wasn’t drunk enough.  Which is probably a strange thing for you to hear me say, but it’s true.  I like Woody Harralson as this character, but he’s just not quite as sloppy as I pictured him.  Haymitch  evokes both pity and disgust, but for the film he seemed more charming than anything else.  He’s one of those people you really are supposed to hate before you grow to love.

8.  The bloodbath.  It’s a violent book.  It’s a horrific idea.  No one’s saying it’s not, but actually seeing it instead of just having it imagined in my head…let’s just say I appreciate the film makers not going to the extreme they could have.

9.  The Capitol.  Again, if you haven’t read the story, you really don’t get a sense of just how decadent the lives of those who inhabit the Capitol are.  We barely see Katniss’s prep team and she certainly doesn’t eat enough.  Lamb stew with dried plums anyone?

10. Rue.  She’s one of the most tragic figures in the entire story, and she was beautifully cast, but there’s not enough development.  Katniss immediately bonds to this child who had no older sister to take her place and though I love the movie’s take on how this moment is truly what starts the rebellion, I missed getting to know Rue better.

What did you think?  Are you of fan of the book or the movie or are you simply wondering what passing craze is going on now?  And for the record, I could easily come up with ten moments I liked about the film adaption because I read the book.

Top Ten Tuesday at Many Little Blessings
http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · Manic Monday

A Manic (birthday) Monday

I haven’t had a manic Monday in ages.  
Especially since I quit working (for pay).
Mondays are usually mine and Amelia’s time to rest up from a busy weekend.
Not today.
Today Annabelle is six.
When you are six, you request doughnuts for your birthday breakfast and mommy makes cheese grits too because she knows you love them and it makes her feel less guilty about feeding you powdered sugar for breakfast.
When you are six, you are allowed to invite your ENTIRE kindergarten class to the park for birthday cake and celebrations.  
Except it rained and we had to move part of the party back to your house and your mommy tried really hard not to freak out about it since the house was NOT party ready.
But it was a bigger mess when the party was over so all’s well that end’s well.

But then the rain went away and the sun came back out and we jumped into cars and drove three miles to brave muddy conditions at the park.

When you are six, you pose a lot for pictures.
Actually, your two year old sister poses a lot too.
Maybe it’s because you’re girls.
And when she remembers it, your mom is obsessed with the camera.

When you are six, you are smart enough to stay off this when Daddy is pushing.

When you are six, mommy might forget the birthday candles, so you find your own.  
Tealights make perfect candles and are oh-so-special.
Happy Birthday, Baby Belle!
Thanks for filling my Monday with McDonald’s and cupcakes and laughter.