http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · madelynne · school

First Days of School

It was a big first day for all of us.  Kindergarten, Pre-K, Bed Babies….oh, and Mommy got to meet almost 100 new faces, too.  And right now, I don’t remember any of their names.

I’m exhausted.  and my feet hurt.  and my head.  oh, and did I mention Amelia shared her cold?  So after five straight hours of “Welcome to 7th Grade!” speeches, my throat is killing me.  But this post isn’t supposed to be about me.  It’s supposed to be about my girls and their big milestones today.

Can we really be actual school parents now?  For big school?  I had more empathy this morning for the parents who are leary of dropping their child at middle school than I have ever had before.  Suddenly I realized she was outside the safe bubble world I had created and chosen for her and was part of the real world where there will be so many more influences we don’t want or like.  It’s scary.

But I didn’t cry.  I really didn’t.  I teared up.  I choked up.  I sniffled this morning while I got ready for my eighth first day of school as a teacher.  And I prepared myself to lose it when I dropped her off and she ran ahead saying,  “I know where my room is!” 

But I didn’t cry.  Because before I left she hugged me tight and said, “Don’t cry, Mama.  It’s going to be okay.” 

And you know what?  It really is.

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Where Did Summer Go?

It’s officially over.  According to the school calendar that is.  Summer….where did you go?

Oh, that’s right.  You went to Harbor Island where the girls got a quick beach fix and Amelia learned to hold her head up like a little turtle.

 You invited Hailey and Audrey to visit for a week at Saddle Ridge Ranch.

You taught Madelynne and Belle to swim and Amelia to roll.

 You celebrated Daddy’s big 3-0 and Amelia’s first cereal.

You got your Twilight fix with Eclipse and the big girls (but no pictures)!

You camped at the lake even though it was hot, hot, hot!

You celebrated a special anniversary with special friends and a special night of fancy dinner and the fancy Fox Theatre (but again, no pictures).

 You panned for gold and gems and bought Daddy a truck.

You stole the Munchkin scene in The Wizard of Oz for two weekends in a row.

And in between you found time to go to the dentist (not so fun), work out at Jazzercise enough to earn flip flops (pretty fun), tube the “mighty ‘Hooch” with Aunt Brooke (lots of fun), and play with your friends at the water park (the most fun).

And while all this was going on, you were letting my girls get bigger right before my eyes.  Now those pictures from early June show preschoolers with shorter hair and shorter legs.  This week they became school girls ready for Kindergarten and Pre-K, independent and a bit sassy, but still sweet and lovable.  They may have darker tans, longer hair, and more inches between their shorts and their knees than Daddy would like, but they’re still my little girls.

And I already can’t wait for next summer!

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Random Acts of….-isms

So I quite behind on my blog posting and this morning I am procrastinating my return to school.  For a few more moments I am going to pretend it’s still summer vacation and since I’ve been inspired by Jack, here’s some of the latest Madelynne-and-Annabelle-isms of our little world:

Madelynne: Mommy, I hope I don’t have a baby before I get married.
Me: Yeah, I definitely hope so too, Madelynne.  Now, tell me, why is it important to be married first?
Madelynne: Because babies are A LOT of work!

…and on the heels of that:
Madelynne:  When James Whitfield and I get married I am only going to have one baby, not three like you Mommy.
Me:  Well, why not?
Madelynne (in a tone of stating the obvious): I TOLD you that babies are a lot of work!

Well, clearly it has been impressed upon her this summer that babies are more than sweet little bundles of joy.  And she’s never even experienced middle of the night feedings!

…and at the Wizard of Oz:
Annabelle:  Mommy, is that witch really dead?
Me: Yes, Belle, Dorothy melted her.
Annabelle: But is she really, really dead?  Like, for real?
Me: Yes, the witch is not coming back.
Annabelle: But is she really dead?  The witch girl?
Me:  Mrs.  Kristy is not dead, Belle, but she is pretending to be the witch, so she is pretending to be dead.
Annabelle:  But the witch is dead for real?
Me: Yes.
Annabelle:  But why does she come back at the end with everybody?
…and I gave up.  Four year olds are very literal creatures.

Then on our way to girls night out Annabelle informs me, “Mommy, I am in love with Hailey Reed.” But then yesterday she told me she was “in love” with M&Ms so I don’t think she quite understands the concept….well, I don’t know.  I might be in love with M&Ms, too.

But the kicker of this week was when  I told Madelynne that she couldn’t have Coke to drink because it was bad for her.  She told me that I drank tea and it had caffeine, so what was the difference.  When I informed her that some things are okay “in moderation” she looked at me like I had three heads or something.  So I figured I better clarify and asked her if she knew what I meant.  The response?
“Yeah, Mommy, moderation is when something isn’t really healthy for you but tastes really good anyway.”

What a lesson in context clues!

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Random Acts of….Selling

I’ve done most of the stuff HGTV told me to when it comes to selling my house.  It’s clean, uncluttered (as much as a home with three kids can be), and smells decent.  However, until today, we haven’t had one person walk through the door.

Since this showing occurred after a couple of interesting events in our life, I figure HGTV forgot to tell me to do these things in order to ensure a potential buyer.

First, you have to make peace with the idea of staying in the the house you’re in. We’ve done that so much that we’re now considering just remodeling and have chosen new kitchen cabinets. Good thing we haven’t bought them yet.

Next, if you have hardwood floors like mine, you should give them a good polish.  Like maybe with an entire bottle of olive oil that fell out of the grocery bag the 5-year-old was toting.  There’s a puddle of EVOO on my floor and all my husband has to say is, “Kathy called.  The house is being shown tomorrow.”

Figures, huh?

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http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008/kind#post · Paynes · summer

Camping in the Rain (in July)

It appears that we are the cause.  The cause of rain that is.  I thought this gift belonged to the NHMS soccer teams because everytime they have a game, it rains.  But apparently, we too are a cause.  Everytime the Bracketts plan a camping trip, it rains.

Back in May I decided that we needed to extend our stay-cation just a bit and camping was an affordable and fun (and work-filled) way to do this.  So, I relied on the trusty National Recreation Reservation Service (i.e. my mom) and booked us a site at Oconee Point on Lake Hartwell.  We invited some friends to join us and the Hollands were game.  Well, Scott and the girls were.  Noelle was pretty sure she’d prefer the Comfort Suites.

I grew up on Hartwell and Russell lakes because my parents are Corps of Engineers and used to take us boating, camping, fishing, all that good outdoorsy stuff I want my children to experience.  Plus, Joshua’s an Eagle Scout so I feel like we should spend more time in the woods using those skills.

Boy is camping different when you have to be the one in charge instead of just the one enjoying yourself.

We packed the van (and I do mean packed, we’re going to have to invest in one of the pods for the roof) and left the house in a downpour.  It’ll be gone by the time we get an hour north we told ourselves.

Whatever, it was following us.  It rained the whole way to the campground and didn’t stop until we were sitting in the car wondering how we were going to unload to get to the tent that was on the bottom and then set it up in the rain.

We finally got camp set up and were eating our dinner of sandwiches when the Hollands arrived around 10 p.m.  Scott had no trouble pitching their tent in the dark and we sat around by lantern light and blessed the rain now, since it had cooled down the temps and made sleeping bearable.

The next morning the kiddos were up bright and early (think prior to 7 a.m.).  We spent the day swimming the lake, walking the campground, fishing for brim, grilling all sorts of yummy burgers and steak and deer backstrap (thanks, Scott!), and riding on the boat with Corey and Alaina.

My brother gets the uncle gold star this week.  He and Alaina came up from Hot-lanta and brought my parents’ old pontoon that Corey has converted to his fishing boat.  They also brought Butter, their water-savvy Golden Retriever, and Jasper, my mom’s only-Golden-in-the-world-who-can’t-swim.
 
We had a good time with the puppies (Scott and Noelle had also brought their basset, Sadie).  They chased balls in the water, jumped off the boat, and searched the island beach for prey.  Jasper even swam a little in an effort to catch some geese.  Corey helped him out by putting the noodle under him.  Hilarious!

We weathered a brief shower under the picnic shelter and then headed out on the lake.

On Saturday night we sat around the campfire trading stories about family and alternately yelling at the girls to go to sleep.  Sunday morning came early again and Corey is now my favorite sibling because he had the coffee ready when we got up at dawn again.

The Hollands had to head out about mid-day, so we spent Sunday afternoon on the boat riding the new toy Corey and Alaina headed off to Anderson to get and letting Granddaddy bond with Amelia.

Sunday night was quiet once it was just us and everyone had gone.  We went to bed early and woke in the middle of the night to….the sound of rain.

Which meant that when we packed up on Monday morning everything was wet and muddy.  Typical.

But a good time, nonetheless!